People seek psychotherapy having tried everything to fix their problems. They feel stuck. But it’s difficult to be objective when you’ve spent so much time immersed in a problem.
Psychotherapy helps people take a step back, to see the situation more objectively. Soon, people begin to see islands of strength within themselves, and start to make changes in their lives.
Adults, adolescents, and children see me for individual, family, and couples therapy. I work in the areas of: grief & bereavement, trauma therapy, relationship conflict, posttraumatic stress disorder, complex posttraumatic stress disorder (CPTSD), dissociation, eating disorders, parent-child conflict, family crises, male and female abuse, and adjustment to divorce.
Loss or trauma powerfully impacts families, but so often people suffer alone. Therapy will help you better support one another, even when conflict occurs between family members.
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Using a trauma-informed approach, therapy will help you better understand your triggers, find healthier ways of coping, and navigate complicated emotions and relationships.
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Individual or joint trauma histories can affect a couple’s relationship, as can misunderstanding and hurt. Couples therapy will help you better address these challenges.
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Clinical Psychologist and Trauma Therapist Dr. Robert T. Muller completed his training at Harvard in 1994, and is a registered psychologist. Toronto-based psychotherapist, and professor of clinical psychology at York University, he teaches trauma therapy and supervises psychotherapists.
He practices individual therapy and couples & family psychology, helping people improve their lives. Dr. Muller offers in-person and online therapy and counselling, for those with trauma histories and other mental health difficulties.
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Traumatic experiences are overwhelming, painful life events that continue to affect people. Often these are interpersonal. People feel an important element of trust has been broken. Perhaps they remember certain prior relationships or aspects of those relationship with feelings of hurt, pain, loss, or betrayal. And they find it very difficult to forge new relationships because the past continues to be a burden.
Trauma therapy is helpful for many people, as long as they are motivated to make change. People often stick to old habits because they work. Sometimes these old habits numb the pain (this happens with substances abuse), or they take the person’s focus away from their difficult past (this happens a lot with workaholics). But when people realize that these old habits come at great personal cost, they find the motivation to seek help. Trauma therapy encourages people to change their old ways of handling their painful past with more productive useful ones. Rather than using avoidance, they learn to face their personal burdens, and this can be freeing.
This varies from person to person. I always do a thorough assessment (which takes two or three sessions). This helps me get to know the person much better. I find that doing that can give me a good idea of whether treatment will be shorter or longer. And I always let people know early on what my assessment shows.
Typically, I start in a once-a-week mode with clients. This allows me to get to know them sooner. Some people continue to come in at that frequency, but many people shift to once-every-two-weeks. This makes it more manageable for them.
My current full fee is $320 per session. OHIP doesn’t cover psychologists’ fees, however if people have extended health benefits, they may claim my services through that. Sessions last about 50 minutes. They are booked directly with me.
I don’t directly bill insurance companies, however, if people have extended health benefits, they may claim my services through that.
“Dr. Muller is an an expert on the topic of trauma due to his experience as a professor, workshop presenter, researcher, and author. He is also an extremely compassionate and empathetic psychologist. It is clear that he has spent years treating children, teens, and adults making him an amazing clinician who has given me tremendous insight into my challenges and how to resolve them. Dr. Muller has made a significant difference in my life, and I would highly recommend him.”
— S. K.
"I wish I could write a book about Dr. Muller—the journey of how I turned my life around. I feel free to be vulnerable and elaborate on my past struggles in life. I feel more secure in the world, and I have gained the capacity to form a secure attachment with my son as a result of my safe and supportive therapeutic relationship with Dr. Muller. I grew in my ability to make better decisions, develop a conscience, and embrace altruism. It took me a long time to realize there's more to life than just the present moment..."
— t. z.
"...Through Dr. Muller's artistic work, I have transcended an intergenerational traumatic life to a fulfilling one, changing my narrative to a positive story. The silver lining of my life is the unconditional care I received through all the therapeutic sessions with Dr. Muller. His reflective practice helped cultivate my potential and strength, empowering me and restoring my resilience."
— t. z.
"Dr. Muller is an extremely capable psychologist. His knowledge, experience, and ability to genuinely connect with people truly set him apart. I could not recommend him enough!"
— g. l.
"Dr. Muller is an excellent psychologist with 30 years of experience. He is compassionate, empathic, and thoughtful when working with clients, colleagues, and students. His insights lead to a better understanding of the self and open the door to change. His expertise in the areas of trauma and attachment was developed through both his clinical work and research initiatives. His knowledge base and clinical skills create the trusting environment needed in therapy."
— j. C.
"Dr. Muller is a competent and empathic clinician. He demonstrates excellent skill and his expertise in trauma therapy is evident in both a treatment and supervision context."
— S. R.
"I strongly recommend Dr. Muller as a trauma therapist and trauma expert! He is an excellent psychologist who is very warm, kind, and genuine. He is incredibly knowledgeable and skilled, with over 30 years of experience providing therapy to those in need and training the next generation of psychologists."
— k. c.
"Dr. Muller is an incredible psychologist with decades of experience, particularly in the area of trauma. He is empathic, warm, and has a wealth of clinical knowledge. He also has done decades of research on trauma so he is very trusted and respected in the field. I would highly recommend him as a therapist!"
— M. S.
"Dr. Muller is an incredibly compassionate, understanding, and knowledgeable expert on trauma recovery. I often recommend him to many people, because of his expertise on the treatment of trauma disorders. He is an amazing professor, mentor, and advocate for individuals struggling with PTSD."
— Y. L.
"I cannot recommend Dr. Muller strongly enough. If I could I'd give him even more stars! Not only is he an expert as a researcher and teacher, but he is a highly skilled therapist and supervisor who brings warmth, compassion and kindness into the consulting room."
— K. J.
"Robert Muller is a knowlegeable and skilled clinician. He is patient and warm. He can hold your experience whether you are a client or a supervisee, and can help you discover what it means to you."
— L. R.